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The Changing Tide of the College Admissions Process

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A recent report entitled Turning the Tide: Inspiring Concern for Others and the Common Good through College Admissions released by the Making Caring Common project of the Harvard Graduate School of Education highlights meaningful changes that could be coming to the college admissions process. Many students and parents today realize that the pressure associated with getting accepted into college has been mounting over the years. It seems as though students are expected to achieve high levels of personal success as students, athletes, and community leaders across a wide variety of activities and advanced courses in order to have a decent shot at receiving an acceptance letter in the mail. In a survey given to 10,000 middle and high-school students asking what mattered most: high individual achievement, happiness, or caring for others, only 22% said caring for others. This raised some red flags for the researchers and inspired the creation of the Making Caring Common project, which in turn produced the Turning the Tide report.

It offers several suggestions to change the way that college admissions offices evaluate incoming applicants and allows them to show their true character. Overall, it emphasizes more quality over quantity. Instead of students submitting a “brag list” of extracurricular activities and community involvement, it calls for listing no more than 2-3 activities with which the student has had meaningful participation. It promotes sustained community involvement in an activity that students care about versus a long list of one-time resume-building experiences. In addition, it provides opportunity for students from less advantaged backgrounds to include commitments to family, such as working a part-time job after school to contribute to family income, as significant contributions to their applications. The report suggests students get involved in activities that allow them to collaborate with a diverse group of people who are different from them and urges recommendations from teachers to comment less on academic success and leadership and more on personal growth. As far as academics, it asks college admissions processes to place less value on a transcript overloaded with AP, honors, or college-level courses and instead evaluate how the course load has allowed the student to authentically engage in other activities and how appropriate it was for a student’s academic development. Writers of the report state that SAT and ACT testing should be optional and the tests’ importance in determining admissions decisions clearly explained to students and parents. Furthermore, it emphasizes the importance of expanding students’ ideas about “good” colleges and demystifying the fact that there are only a handful of worthy colleges to attend.

So far, 80 key stakeholders in college admissions have endorsed the report. This is an exciting time, as contributions like this may expand opportunities and redefine the message that universities send to high school students about what is valued for success in higher education and in life.

To read the full report, click here.

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Lessons Learned from Dr. Dan Shapiro

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Professional development is a key component of every mentor’s career at Thinking Organized. At our December staff meeting we were joined by Dr. Dan Shapiro, who discussed with us some of the issues present in our students’ lives and how to effectively guide them toward success. Dr. Shapiro is a highly regarded pediatrician in the DC metro area who focuses on developmental and behavioral pediatrics. The topics that he discussed with us are useful for anyone who is looking to learn more about supporting students with executive functioning weaknesses, and we wanted to share some of his wisdom with you here!

First, Dr. Shapiro reminded us that executive functions take decades to develop. Often, students are expected to perform when they really cannot. Parents can look at actual photos (the New York Times has an awesome webpage for this here) to help explain what is occurring in a developing child’s brain. It helps to demystify what is going on since it is very clear that the prefrontal cortex, where executive functions reside, continues to develop and mature well into early adulthood. Once this understanding is in place, it becomes much easier to meet the child where he is and provide reasonable expectations. Of course, students do need to experience gradual release of responsibility, but it is important to be aware of what is occurring internally that is out of a child’s control.

Another key takeaway from the meeting was Dr. Shapiro’s explanation of the complexity that underlies any difficulty that students are experiencing. Factors such as executive functioning skills, learned avoidance behaviors, and the family environment all play a role in determining how a student is performing in school and daily life. Dr. Shapiro talked about how change comes about with a mutually respectful, collaborative process. He explained that the student needs to be involved in evaluating the situation and brainstorming possible solutions in order to find a strategy that works best. Once students recognize an area where they want to improve and they are in the brainstorming phase, it is important to leave judgment at the door. No possible solution is unacceptable and every idea deserves to be seriously considered. Once brainstorming is complete, rank each possible solution on a scale from 1 (terrible) to 5 (excellent) and look at the results. Ask the child to choose a course of action and try it using a time-limited trial. Make sure to evaluate the results and revise the plan if needed.

We certainly learned a lot from speaking to Dr. Shapiro, and we appreciate his willingness to speak with our group! He currently runs a variety of courses along with Dr. Sarah Wayland dedicated to helping parents navigate raising a child with a difficult temperament and/or developmental differences. To sign up for any of the courses and receive more information, check here:

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Getting Rid of Boredom with Board Games

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As the days turn darker earlier and the temperature plummets, many families are starting to spend more time inside instead of going out to brave the chilly weather. Boredom can set in quickly when children are stuck in the house without their bikes, sidewalk chalk, or sports equipment to keep them occupied. Luckily, there are plenty of equally as fun board games to add some excitement to indoor playtime. As a bonus, the games suggested below all help build executive functioning skills!


Skills required: sequential searching, working memory, mental speed, visual-spatial processing, concentration, processing speed

The object of this game is to create a set of three cards from twelve cards that are face-up on the table. Each card has four features to pay attention to— shape, color, number, and shading. A set consists of three cards in which each of the cards’ features, looked at one-by-one, are the same on each card, or, are different on each card. This is a fun game for kids ages six and up and it can be played with one or more people.


Skills required: organization, flexible thinking, planning, prioritizing

To play Quiddler, participants receive a stack of letter cards. They must try to create as many short words as possible using the cards, and as the game goes on players get more cards so that they can build multiple short words or single longer words. Players test their flexible thinking skills as they try to come up with as many different letter combinations as possible to create words. This game is good for ages 8 and up and can be played with up to seven other players. It also comes in a Junior version for younger students.


Skills required: reasoning, planning, problem solving

In this game, players have to be flexible in switching between a defensive and offensive mindset to outwit their opponent. The object of the game is to navigate through “corridors” that your opponent creates in order to advance to the opposite side of the board. With each move, a player either moves his or her token or places a piece of barrier that will foil the opponent. Each player is only allowed 10 barriers, which requires careful planning and problem solving.

Give some of these games a try and feel free to comment and let us know what you think!

Check out the articles from The Atlantic and listed below for more on these and other suggestions:

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Out with the Old, In with the New

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Starting in March 2016, college bound students everywhere will be signing up to take the new SAT.

What exactly is so different about this new version of the test?

  • One of the biggest changes is that there will be two sections scored on a 200-800 point scale- reading and math.
  • Writing an essay, which is required on the current exam, will be optional.
  • In addition, there will be no penalty for guessing and the amount of choices for each question will be narrowed to four instead of five.
  • The test will be adapted to better align with the Common Core standards. This means that instead of testing a wide breadth of knowledge, it will delve deeper into a student’s knowledge of using foundational skills such as interpreting evidence from a text or solving a real-world math word problem. A task on the new SAT might require students to decipher the best meaning of a widely used word given its context in a reading passage, versus choosing the definition of an obscure vocabulary word that a student memorized along with hundreds of others.
  • The writing section will require students to present a critical response to an argument versus writing about personal experience. Math topics will include a few newcomers such as trigonometry and statistics and will prohibit the use of a calculator.

While some of these changes may seem daunting, the good news is that most students have been preparing for an assessment like this every day in school with the new Common Core aligned curriculums in place. The higher level thinking skills required are also ones that students use in real life. Reading often, being a critical consumer of information, and working hard in school will all help prepare students to take this version of the test. It is not as important whether a student can memorize a bunch of information, rather it matters how he or she uses the information given by analyzing and interpreting it. And in case you were wondering, yes, the test is still a whopping three hours and fifty minutes long.



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Switch Up Your Study Habits

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As a student, how often did you sit down at the same desk to study? For many people, studying becomes a habit that doesn’t take on many different forms. Finding a go-to quiet spot that is free of distractions or a coffee shop table with just enough hustle and bustle to help you focus can easily become the norm. While it probably does not seem like there is anything wrong with your favorite study routine, scientific evidence suggests you switch it up a bit in order to get the best results.

One way to help your brain form a stronger neural connection with the information that you are learning is to study the material in a variety of settings. You don’t even notice it, but your brain constantly absorbs all kinds of background information about your environment. If you study your vocabulary words in the kitchen one day and then the backyard the next day, for instance, your brain associates the different background sensations that it perceives with the words to promote better retention. In essence, you are providing more “neural scaffolding” to help your mind latch on to whatever concept you are trying to learn by making multiple associations. Just like you remember the lyrics to your favorite song as you sing a long in your car, bedroom, and office, you are less likely to forget something that you experienced more than once in a variety of settings.

But that’s not all. Remember that time you crammed for a test the night before and then forgot everything as soon as it was over? Changing your study place is one important factor contributing to retention of information, but so is the frequency, duration, and diversity of your study time. As most of us know, it is important to review information consistently over a long period of time in order to best digest it. It is also better to vary the type of material studied in a single sitting. In one experiment published in the Journal of Psychology and Aging, both college-age students and adults of retirement age were better able to recognize the style of 12 unfamiliar artists when they viewed the paintings among mixed collections versus viewing a dozen works of one particular painter, then moving on to the next.

Take a second to re-examine your study habits or those of people around you. Something as simple as studying in different places could make a significant difference in the quality of your study time!


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Three Cheers for Chores

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A typical week for an elementary through high school student likely includes tasks such as completing homework, studying for upcoming tests, attending multiple club meetings and sports practices, hanging out with friends, and meeting with teachers. In the hustle and bustle of the everyday routine, one important thing often gets lost: chores. Many parents may feel as though their child has no time for chores amidst their busy schedule, or that it is easier to just do everything themselves. Decades of studies have shown, however, that children who regularly engage in activities to help keep the household running smoothly have a greater sense of self-regulation, reliance, responsibility, and mastery. They also have a greater awareness of the importance of caring for others in relationships. Referring to your child as a helper when he walks the dog or empties the dishwasher, for example, helps him to realize the importance of helping others and doing his part for the benefit of the group.

For children with ADHD, chores can be especially beneficial. They can serve as recognition of the child’s value that she adds to the household and make her feel as though she makes a positive contribution when often she experiences more frustrations and failures as compared to the average child. Keep in mind that it is important to model the steps that children need to take in order to complete the chore successfully and provide some guided practice before they are expected to do it independently, especially for younger children. If the child is doing laundry, for instance, this might mean showing him how to separate darks and lights, measure out the correct amount of soap, load the washer without overstuffing, put it on the correct settings, and set a timer as a reminder for when the clothes will be ready to switch to the dryer. Providing some sort of written or visual cues illustrating the steps is also helpful until the chore becomes routine. Establishing a timeframe is another useful strategy to employ when assigning chores. Instead of asking your child to set the table, you could ask her to set the table by 6:00 pm in order to provide greater motivation to complete the task.

So, have your children roll up their sleeves and start washing the dishes, feeding the dog, doing the laundry, setting the table, dusting the furniture, making the beds, and taking out the trash. They may not thank you now, but they will be much better off in the future having learned the value of chores.


If you’re looking for some extra motivation to help get a child to buy into the idea of chores, take a look at these engaging apps:

  • You Rule Chores ($3.99)
    • An app where the child chooses an avatar and completes approved chores for digital coins that can be redeemed for rewards
  • ChoreMonster ($4.99/month)
    • Gives points and rewards for completed chores, a long with passes to a Monster Carnival where kids play to win fun digital prizes
  • Epic Win, iReward Chart, Chore Pad
    • Digital replacements for chore charts with stickers or stars




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There’s No Such Thing as “Normal”

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Have you ever heard of the term “neurodiversity?” If you’re like me, the word is new, but the concept behind it makes a lot of sense and feels like it should have existed in your vocabulary for a long time now. The Washington Post recently published an article entitled, “In autism, a sense of comfort and identity, not dread” by Sandhya Somashekhar. It talks about how various neurological differences, in particular autism, are just that—inborn wirings of the brain that cause a person to function in unique ways. More and more, people are speaking out about neurodiversity and are advocating for increased awareness of all of the exceptional abilities and challenges that come with a diagnosis such as autism. The overarching goal is for people with autism to be better understood and accepted, not seen as in need of a “cure” or changing who they really are in order to become more “normal.” The neurodiversity movement likens itself to those of gay rights or improving police treatment of African Americans, considering people with autism “a minority group, albeit one with extra challenges that might need accommodating.”

At Thinking Organized, we notice the same trend among our students and parents over the past several years . The lines of communication are open much wider regarding diagnoses such as autism, in which clients are more readily able to embrace themselves for who they are and act as their own self-advocates. Understanding the strengths and challenges of our clients and helping them to find strategies to make difficult tasks a better fit for their distinct learning style is what we’re all about here and is what makes our job so fulfilling. When awareness increases, so can acceptance. It is a wonderful thing when people can acknowledge their individuality and be accepted by others, and knowledge is the first step toward understanding. The “neurodiversity movement” will hopefully continue to spread as more people gain confidence in what makes them special and are unashamed about sharing it with the world. Recognizing that there is no such thing as “normal” and broadening our perspectives as to the endless variety of people living here on earth will help everyone feel important, accepted, and respected.

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Testing Troubles

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You may have heard that about 100 students in Loudon County, Virginia, have to re-take the SAT this June. The College Board reports that the tests were never received, and unfortunately, there is no magical way to conjure scores for students whose tests were lost in the shuffle. As a result, after months of studying and hundreds of dollars spent on test prep, many families are bitterly disappointed. Frustration runs deepest with the students, who now have to muster up the strength to re-take the SAT when they have already put it all behind them. For us here at Thinking Organized, this story connects on a personal level. We would like to share our story and some words of wisdom for students faced with unexpected obstacles.

A relative of mine had to retake the SAT exam many years ago; her score was considered invalid for a reason that I still don’t understand. Needless to say, she thought the world had come to an end and that her chances of getting into college had significantly diminished. The College Board provided another test date, but that was hardly a terrific consolation prize. The first thing I did was to help this student understand that there was no other choice; the exam had to be retaken. I did agree with her that this was very unfortunate and highly unfair. I think acknowledging the tough situation that your child is facing can be an important way of showing that you are listening and agreeing that the predicament is terrible.

Next, we decided together that she had prepared as well as she could, so she was just going to go in and retake the SAT. For some students, the idea of having to gear up again to study is just so overwhelming that it is not worth the trouble. For others, a little more studying might calm nerves and show the student that he or she is ready. I tried to help her and her parents return to “normal life” until the exam, rather than continuously revisiting the issue. Although this retake may feel devastating to a high school student, it is important to try to move on and not dwell on the unfairness of the situation. By remaining stuck in frustration, a student’s schoolwork may suffer, which will have a larger impact on one’s overall profile than a repeated SAT.

Let your child know that you stand with him or her, acknowledge the student’s anger and frustration, and support your child in getting into a better mindset to retake the exam. Believe me, your student, like all high school students, will forget the stress of the SATs once the acceptance letters from colleges begin to come in!!

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Taking Advantage of Technology – App Spotlight: StudyBlue

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When considering a technological trend for studying, pay attention to these important criteria:

  1. Accessibility
  2. Adaptability
  3. Multiple Review Modes
  4. Centralized location

App Spotlight: StudyBlue

StudyBlue can be downloaded for free from the iTunes App Store or Android Google Play. You can upgrade to StudyBlue Pro with no ads and advanced study features for $4.00 per month. Both the free and pro versions can make a huge difference in your child’s study habits, and we would recommend sticking with the free version since it’s got all of the useful features for no cost.

For the disorganized student, the StudyBlue app can help initiate and focus the studying process toward mastery of the content while keeping materials organized and available.


Why it’s important: When it comes to studying, you never know when you might have a few free minutes to review the material. Students might have time during study hall or in between the end of the school day and sports practice to brush up on the vocabulary for tomorrow’s test. If notecards get scattered throughout a backpack or study sheets are left at home, valuable time can be wasted.

How the app can help: StudyBlue is readily accessible online, on the iPad, or on a student’s Apple or Android smartphone.

StudyBlue uses technology that most students have at their fingertips. Using flashcards is a tried-and-true study tool, but it can get jumbled. Cards can easily get lost, pile up and lose any sense of organization, or become crumbled and cumbersome to carry around. Having the appropriate materials available anywhere and everywhere allows students to make the most of their study time.


Why it’s important: The more ways you interact with a concept, the easier it will be for you to remember it. While studying, if you write out a concept and can both hear and see it as well, the chances of you remembering it later are much greater.

How the app can help: The app allows students to create original decks of flashcards or study from thousands of decks already created by other students at their school or university. When creating a card, you can customize the text using color and style. Color can be used to distinguish the definition from examples, for instance. There is even an option that brings up a variety of symbols so that entering math formulas is a cinch.

One of the most unique features of the app is that it is possible to add an image that represents the definition in addition to a sound recording to each card. This way, they are simple to customize for any subject. If you are studying composers and the music they created or a foreign language, adding sound to a card can really help. If you have to know artists and the paintings they made or want to have a visual image in your mind to help cue your memory as to the meaning of a word, adding a picture is a great option.

Multiple Review Modes

Why it’s important: Studying can get tedious and inefficient. Students may waste time going over information that they already know or lose interest and quickly flip through flashcards without regard to learning the material. Having options to encourage active studying and track progress can maximize the benefits of using flashcards as a study tool.

How the app can help: StudyBlue will track your study habits so that you can review a concept on various settings, either in order, random, least studied, or hardest to easiest. You can quiz yourself by flipping the cards and indicating whether you answered correctly or incorrectly, taking a multiple choice, true and false, or fill-in-the-blank test, or creating a review sheet. After, the app gives you a score and estimates your mastery of the concept as it shows how many you studied and breaks down the number of right and wrong.

To go along with all of these useful review features, you can even set a study reminder via text, Facebook, or e-mail anywhere from 15 minutes to 48 hours into the future so that you don’t forget about your review time.

Centralized Location

Why it’s important: Assessments involve a compilation of learned material, which can make for a disorganized mess. Students might have class notes, readings, and vocabulary cards that contain all of the information needed for studying scattered throughout a bedroom, locker, binders, or backpack. A lot of time can be wasted looking for what to study instead of learning the material!

How the app can help: StudyBlue allows students to create their own “digital backpack” that contains a neat listing of all of their classes and materials. Not only can sets of flashcards be stored and sorted into appropriate categories, but also notes and other class materials can be uploaded and stored a long with them. The best part is that they will never go missing or get ruined since they are always securely backed up online.

If you enter the app store armed with the knowledge of what standards are important for a worthwhile download when it comes to studying, the learning outcomes can increase significantly.

For more information about the StudyBlue app, visit


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Work Hard, Do Your Best, Follow Your Passions

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School is supposed to be a place for academic learning, discovery, joy, and social development. Think about your elementary school experiences. It is likely that there was time for free play, music, recess, art, games, and pure enjoyment of learning. Today, pressures are high and many of these elementary experiences that we can fondly look back upon have fallen by the wayside. Students are expected to be “college and career” ready by the time they graduate high school, and the expectations start as early as kindergarten.

According to a recent New York Times article “Is Your First Grader College Ready?” by Laura Pappano, students as young as six years old are filling out mock college applications and kids who are only nine to twelve years old are touring college campuses on school field trips. As the bar continues to rise for students to be admitted into top universities, the appropriate time to start preparing becomes earlier and earlier. The pressure mounts for all of the building blocks to be perfectly stacked by twelfth grade, including academic achievement, extracurricular involvement, volunteer experience, and so on.

Stop a second. What are we doing to our kids? How much stress and anxiety will we cause for them with our extraordinary expectations? How much of their carefree childhood will we steal away? There is no reason why teachers and parents should not hold high expectations for their children. There is also nothing wrong with thinking about the future, having goals, and learning that it takes hard work and perseverance to get there. However, young students deserve time to learn about the world and themselves. They need time to explore their passions, which could change from day to day or month to month. It is important to keep the joy within the learning process, both academic and social, and to gain certain maturity before being ready to tackle big life questions.

It’s time to dial it down. As elementary students especially, children should be taught that they are in control of the outcomes of their actions. They should always work hard, do their best in any endeavor, and follow their passions. That should be enough to build a solid foundation on which to build once they are older and can go on to achieve their future goals.

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